{"id":6271,"date":"2025-11-13T15:12:22","date_gmt":"2025-11-13T15:12:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/norddahl.org\/fjallabaksleidin\/?p=6271"},"modified":"2025-11-13T16:52:41","modified_gmt":"2025-11-13T16:52:41","slug":"frammistodukarlar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/norddahl.org\/fjallabaksleidin\/?p=6271","title":{"rendered":"Frammist\u00f6\u00f0ukarlar"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Einhvern t\u00edma \u00ed fort\u00ed\u00f0inni var veri\u00f0 a\u00f0 tala um \u201eperformative masculinity\u201c \u00ed Lestinni. Sem var \u00ed \u00feessu tilviki ekki a\u00f0 flexa v\u00f6\u00f0vana e\u00f0a spila rafmagnsg\u00edtars\u00f3l\u00f3 e\u00f0a setja brilljant\u00edn \u00ed h\u00e1ri\u00f0 e\u00f0a manspreada e\u00f0a mansplaina e\u00f0a neitt af \u00fev\u00ed heldur a\u00f0 lesa b\u00e6kur \u00e1 opinberum sta\u00f0 \u00ed \u00feeim tilgangi a\u00f0 komast yfir konur. Ekki hva\u00f0a b\u00e6kur sem er, held \u00e9g, heldur fyrst og fremst eitthva\u00f0 sem konur g\u00e6tu tali\u00f0 karla \u00f3l\u00edklega til a\u00f0 lesa \u2013&nbsp;Jane Austen, Simone de Beauvoir, eitthva\u00f0 \u00feannig. Lestur sem p\u00e1fuglastarfsemi. M\u00f6kunardans. \u00c9g \u00e6tla ekki a\u00f0 \u00feykjast muna hva\u00f0 var sagt og hva\u00f0 var ekki sagt \u2013&nbsp;kannski er \u00e9g bara a\u00f0 endurtaka \u00fea\u00f0 sem var sagt, \u00feetta var fyrir \u00e1rei\u00f0anlega m\u00e1nu\u00f0i s\u00ed\u00f0an \u2013&nbsp;en mig minnir a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 hafi veri\u00f0 ger\u00f0 frekar sk\u00f6rp skil milli \u00feess sem er annars vegar einl\u00e6gt og hins vegar \u00feess sem er performat\u00edft. \u00d3\u00fearflega sk\u00f6rp. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sk\u00f6mmu eftir a\u00f0 \u00e9g heyr\u00f0i \u00feennan \u00fatvarps\u00fe\u00e1tt var \u00e9g staddur \u00e1 kaffih\u00fasi \u00ed Zurich. \u00cd fanginu var \u00e9g me\u00f0 \u00feverhandar\u00feykkt sm\u00e1sagnarsafn Flannery O&#8217;Connor en \u00e1 bor\u00f0inu voru Illness as Metaphor eftir Susan Sontag og White Album eftir Joan Didion. \u00dea\u00f0 sem konurnar \u00e1 kaffih\u00fasinu, sem d\u00e1\u00f0ust a\u00f0 m\u00e9r, vissu ekki er a\u00f0 \u00e9g var a\u00f0 lesa form\u00e1lann a\u00f0 sm\u00e1sagnasafninu. Sem var eftir karl.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">En sem sagt. Einl\u00e6gni og performans. Au\u00f0vita\u00f0 getur einl\u00e6gni veri\u00f0 b\u00e6\u00f0i f\u00f6lsk og performat\u00edv, og s\u00f6nn og performat\u00edv. \u00deegar \u00e9g var um tv\u00edtugt las \u00e9g The Beauty Myth eftir Naomi Wolf (sem er \u00ed dag \u00feekkt fyrir a\u00f0 vera h\u00e6gritr\u00f6ll en var \u00fe\u00e1 helsti hot shot fem\u00ednistinn). \u00c9g haf\u00f0i \u00e1 henni einl\u00e6gan \u00e1huga, ekki bara til \u00feess a\u00f0 skilja eitthva\u00f0 um \u201est\u00f6\u00f0u kvenna\u201c heldur l\u00edka til \u00feess a\u00f0 skilja eitthva\u00f0 um eigin h\u00e9g\u00f3ma (allt f\u00f3lk sem gengur me\u00f0 hatt er \u00ed e\u00f0li s\u00ednu p\u00e1fuglar) \u2013&nbsp;hva\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fd\u00f0ir \u00feegar ma\u00f0ur reynir a\u00f0 vera fallegur, hva\u00f0 ma\u00f0ur er a\u00f0 gera, hverjum ma\u00f0ur er a\u00f0 hl\u00fd\u00f0a og hvern ma\u00f0ur er a\u00f0 reyna a\u00f0 heilla (ma\u00f0ur hl\u00fd\u00f0ir mest heiminum til \u00feess a\u00f0 ganga \u00ed augun \u00e1 sj\u00e1lfum s\u00e9r, en \u00fea\u00f0 er l\u00edka fl\u00f3knara og fer \u00ed hringi, einsog \u00f6ll sj\u00e1lfsmyndarl\u00f3g\u00edk). \u00c9g man ekki til \u00feess a\u00f0 hafa lesi\u00f0 Beauty Myth \u00fear sem til m\u00edn s\u00e1st, en \u00ed svona tv\u00f6 \u00e1r \u00e1 eftir nefndi \u00e9g hana \u00e1rei\u00f0anlega vi\u00f0 allar s\u00e6tar stelpur sem \u00e9g hitti. Til \u00feess a\u00f0 vinna inn stig. En \u00fea\u00f0 breytir engu um hitt, a\u00f0 m\u00e9r fannst l\u00edka b\u00f3kin \u00e1hugaver\u00f0, a\u00f0 \u00e9g las hana fyrir sj\u00e1lfan mig \u2013&nbsp;og h\u00fan \u00fej\u00f3na\u00f0i l\u00edka \u00feeim tilgangi a\u00f0 s\u00eda \u00fat vitleysingana. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hi\u00f0 performat\u00edva gerir \u00fea\u00f0 nefnilega \u2013&nbsp;\u00fea\u00f0 er \u00ed senn fagurfr\u00e6\u00f0ileg og heimspekileg yfirl\u00fdsing til heimsins og \u00e1kall \u00e1 f\u00f3lki\u00f0 sem ma\u00f0ur deilir l\u00edfss\u00fdn me\u00f0. S\u00e1 sem sest \u00e1 kaffih\u00fas me\u00f0 <em>Emmu<\/em> \u00ed \u00feeirri von a\u00f0 la\u00f0a a\u00f0 s\u00e9r konu, hl\u00fdtur a\u00f0 vilja finna konu sem f\u00edlar Jane Austen \u2013 a\u00f0 finna einhvers konar s\u00e1luf\u00e9laga \u2013&nbsp;ef hann vildi bara stunda kynl\u00edf me\u00f0 einhverjum eru til umtalsvert markvissari lei\u00f0ir a\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed markmi\u00f0i. Sem svo aftur breytir ekki hinu a\u00f0 ungt f\u00f3lk er yfirleitt enn a\u00f0 finna sig og s\u00e1 sem heldur eina vikuna a\u00f0 hann f\u00edli <em>Emmu<\/em> og vilji elska konur me\u00f0 Austenbl\u00e6ti getur veri\u00f0 farinn a\u00f0 lesa Ayn Rand og dagdreyma um Dagny Taggart h\u00e1lfu \u00e1ri s\u00ed\u00f0ar. E\u00f0a h\u00e1lfum m\u00e1nu\u00f0i \u00feess vegna. Einl\u00e6gni er l\u00edka m\u00f3tsagnarkennd ef h\u00fan f\u00e6r sm\u00e1 t\u00edma. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00deessa dagana er \u00e9g au\u00f0vita\u00f0 a\u00f0 lesa Ulysses mj\u00f6g performat\u00edft. H\u00fan er b\u00f3k af \u00fev\u00ed tagi sem ma\u00f0ur \u00e1 erfitt me\u00f0 a\u00f0 \u00feegja um \u2013&nbsp;h\u00fan leggur mann undir sig. En \u00e9g hef alla t\u00ed\u00f0 lesi\u00f0 svona \u2013&nbsp;haft \u00fe\u00f6rf fyrir a\u00f0 nefna \u00fea\u00f0 vi\u00f0 f\u00f3lk hva\u00f0 \u00e9g er a\u00f0 lesa. Segja hva\u00f0 m\u00e9r fannst. Finnst. Stundum er \u00fea\u00f0 bara til a\u00f0 grobba. Svona einsog ma\u00f0ur kemur \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00ed samr\u00e6\u00f0um hva\u00f0 ma\u00f0ur tekur \u00ed bekk. Var \u00e9g annars b\u00fainn a\u00f0 segja ykkur a\u00f0 \u00e9g hlj\u00f3p mara\u00feon \u00ed s\u00ed\u00f0asta m\u00e1nu\u00f0i? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hva\u00f0 um \u00fea\u00f0. \u00c9g er \u00ed li\u00f0i me\u00f0 f\u00f3lki sem les \u00e1 kaffih\u00fasum. Og \u00ed lestum. Og \u00e1 bekkjum. S\u00e1 sem hefur ekki gengi\u00f0 \u00e1 lj\u00f3sastaur ni\u00f0ursokkinn \u00ed b\u00f3k \u2013&nbsp;og vaki\u00f0 me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed athygli umheimsins, ef ekki a\u00f0d\u00e1un \u2013&nbsp;hefur ekki lifa\u00f0. Og \u00e9g er l\u00edka \u00ed li\u00f0i me\u00f0 \u00feeim sem eru a\u00f0 leita s\u00e9r a\u00f0 s\u00e1luf\u00e9laga. B\u00f3lf\u00e9laga. Einhverjum til a\u00f0 tala vi\u00f0. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Annars er \u00e9g \u00ed lest. Sem var a\u00f0 renna inn \u00ed H\u00f6\u00f6r. \u00c1 lei\u00f0inni til Karlskrona. S\u00e6nski b\u00f3kat\u00farinn er b\u00fainn og n\u00fa b\u00ed\u00f0ur m\u00edn P\u00f3lland. \u00c9g \u00e1 k\u00e1etu \u00ed skipi til Gdynia \u00ed kv\u00f6ld og ver\u00f0 kominn \u00feanga\u00f0 \u00ed fyrram\u00e1li\u00f0. M\u00e9r finnst \u00fea\u00f0 klassi \u2013 \u00ed s\u00ed\u00f0ustu viku gengum vi\u00f0 forleggjarinn minn fram \u00e1 unga, d\u00e1l\u00edti\u00f0 drukkna konu \u00ed Stokkh\u00f3lmi sem var a\u00f0 leita s\u00e9r a\u00f0 eldi til a\u00f0 kveikja \u00ed s\u00edgarettu, og h\u00fan haf\u00f0i \u00e1 or\u00f0i a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 litum \u00fat einsog \u201e20. aldar rith\u00f6fundar\u201c (s. <em>nittonhundratalsf\u00f6rfattare<\/em>). A\u00f0 fara me\u00f0 skipi til n\u00e6sta lands til \u00feess a\u00f0 fylgja eftir annarri b\u00f3k er einmitt eitthva\u00f0 sem 20. aldar rith\u00f6fundur g\u00e6ti teki\u00f0 upp \u00e1 a\u00f0 gera. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Einhvern t\u00edma \u00ed fort\u00ed\u00f0inni var veri\u00f0 a\u00f0 tala um \u201eperformative masculinity\u201c \u00ed Lestinni. Sem var \u00ed \u00feessu tilviki ekki a\u00f0 flexa v\u00f6\u00f0vana e\u00f0a spila rafmagnsg\u00edtars\u00f3l\u00f3 e\u00f0a setja brilljant\u00edn \u00ed h\u00e1ri\u00f0 e\u00f0a manspreada e\u00f0a mansplaina e\u00f0a neitt af \u00fev\u00ed heldur a\u00f0 lesa b\u00e6kur \u00e1 opinberum sta\u00f0 \u00ed \u00feeim tilgangi a\u00f0 komast yfir konur. Ekki hva\u00f0a b\u00e6kur &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/norddahl.org\/fjallabaksleidin\/?p=6271\" class=\"more-link\">Halda \u00e1fram a\u00f0 lesa: <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Frammist\u00f6\u00f0ukarlar<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6271","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/norddahl.org\/fjallabaksleidin\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6271","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/norddahl.org\/fjallabaksleidin\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/norddahl.org\/fjallabaksleidin\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/norddahl.org\/fjallabaksleidin\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/norddahl.org\/fjallabaksleidin\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=6271"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"http:\/\/norddahl.org\/fjallabaksleidin\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6271\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6273,"href":"http:\/\/norddahl.org\/fjallabaksleidin\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6271\/revisions\/6273"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/norddahl.org\/fjallabaksleidin\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=6271"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/norddahl.org\/fjallabaksleidin\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=6271"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/norddahl.org\/fjallabaksleidin\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=6271"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}