\u00c6tli \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 ekki aldurstengt hversu oft hugsanir m\u00ednar \u00feessa vikuna hafa hvarfla\u00f0 til m\u00f3\u00f0ur Jeppes og Patricks Pedersena. Annar skora\u00f0i s\u00f6gulega fallegt mark og var\u00f0 bikarmeistari me\u00f0 Vestra \u00e1 me\u00f0an hinn sleit h\u00e1sin me\u00f0 Vali. Og mamma \u00feeirra hefur \u00feurft a\u00f0 hringja \u00ed \u00fe\u00e1 b\u00e1\u00f0a eftir leikinn. Ekki veit \u00e9g hva\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 segir um innl\u00e6r\u00f0a kynjatv\u00edhyggjuna a\u00f0 \u00e9g hafi ekki s\u00f6mu \u00e1hyggjur af pabba \u00feeirra. E\u00f0a hinni m\u00f6mmu \u00feeirra?! P\u00f6bbum \u00feeirra? F\u00f3sturstj\u00fapum \u00feeirra og framkv\u00e6mdastj\u00f3rum danskra muna\u00f0arleysingjah\u00e6la? Ekki veit \u00e9g neitt um fj\u00f6lskyldua\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0ur \u00feeirra anna\u00f0 en br\u00f3\u00f0erni\u00f0 \u2013 \u00e9g dreg m\u00ednar \u00e1lyktanir af einhverjum t\u00f6lfr\u00e6\u00f0ilegum l\u00edkindum. En \u00feetta hl\u00fdtur a\u00f0 vera s\u00e1rt og s\u00e6tt. Og s\u00e1rt og s\u00e6tt. Og svo aftur s\u00e1rt og svo aftur s\u00e6tt. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00c9g s\u00e1 stutt brot me\u00f0 Snorra M\u00e1ssyni \u00e1 einhverjum samf\u00e9lagsmi\u00f0lana \u00e1 d\u00f6gunum \u00fear sem hann sag\u00f0ist vera e\u00f0lishyggjuma\u00f0ur en dr\u00f3 svo \u00ed land me\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 \u2013 sag\u00f0i eitthva\u00f0 \u00ed \u00fe\u00e1 veru a\u00f0 or\u00f0i\u00f0 v\u00e6ri \u00ed sj\u00e1lfu s\u00e9r f\u00e1r\u00e1nlegt, e\u00f0lishyggja<\/em>, af \u00fev\u00ed \u00fea\u00f0 f\u00e6li \u00ed s\u00e9r efa \u00e1 tilvist e\u00f0lisins. Og einsog vi\u00f0 vitum \u00f6ll er e\u00f0li\u00f0 sj\u00e1lfsag\u00f0ur sannleikur. \u00deetta hl\u00e6g\u00f0i mig svol\u00edti\u00f0. Ekki af \u00fev\u00ed \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 enginn hluti tilvistar okkar bundinn vi\u00f0 e\u00f0li \u2013 \u00fea\u00f0 er e\u00f0li okkar a\u00f0 \u00feurfa \u00f6ryggi og hamingju til d\u00e6mis. Og svo h\u00f6fum vi\u00f0 pers\u00f3nubundi\u00f0 e\u00f0li sem vi\u00f0 l\u00e1tum stundum einsog s\u00e9 almennt. Einsog a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 e\u00f0li okkar a\u00f0 leita \u00e1star og elska. \u00dea\u00f0 \u00e1 vi\u00f0 um okkur langflest en ekki \u00f6ll \u2013\u00a0\u00fea\u00f0 er e\u00f0li en \u00fea\u00f0 er ekki sammannlegt e\u00f0li. En \u00fea\u00f0 sem Snorri var a\u00f0 tala um, hafi \u00e9g ekki misskili\u00f0 \u2013\u00a0\u00feessi s\u00edbyljandi \u00e1r\u00f3\u00f0ur internetsins er aldrei sk\u00fdr og yfirleitt horfinn um lei\u00f0 og hann birtist \u2013 var kynheg\u00f0un. A\u00f0 karlar s\u00e9u st\u00f3rir og sterkir v\u00f6\u00f0vaverndarar og konur s\u00e9u hl\u00fdjir og k\u00e6rleiksr\u00edkir um\u00f6nnunarverndarar. Karlar k\u00fdla illmenni, konur setja pl\u00e1stra \u00e1 b\u00f6rn. \u00dev\u00ed jafnvel \u00fe\u00f3tt ma\u00f0ur sam\u00feykki a\u00f0 tilhneigingar h\u00f3panna s\u00e9u \u00ed \u00fe\u00e1 \u00e1tt og hafi veri\u00f0 \u00e1 li\u00f0num \u00f6ldum \u00fe\u00e1 er hl\u00e6gilega vitlaust a\u00f0 halda a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 \u00ed sj\u00e1lfu s\u00e9r s\u00fdni a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 ekki l\u00e6rt. Alveg svona \u00e9g-f\u00e9ll-\u00ferisvar-\u00ed-f\u00e9lagsfr\u00e6\u00f0i-103-vitlaust. Og \u00fe\u00f3tt sanna m\u00e6tti a\u00f0 fr\u00e6i\u00f0 a\u00f0 tiltekinni heg\u00f0un \u2013\u00a0vi\u00f0 erum a\u00f0 tala um hluti einsog a\u00f0 varalita sig og finnast gaman \u00ed byss\u00f3 \u2013 v\u00e6ri \u201ee\u00f0li\u201c (\u00ed merkingunni eitthva\u00f0 sem allir f\u00e6\u00f0ast me\u00f0) og \u00fea\u00f0 v\u00e6ri ekki l\u00e6rt fr\u00e1 grunni \u00fe\u00e1 g\u00e6ti \u00fea\u00f0 veri\u00f0 l\u00e6rd\u00f3mur sem \u00fdtir undir og n\u00e6rir vissar tilhneigingar svo \u00fe\u00e6r vaxi umfram \u00fea\u00f0 sem \u00fe\u00e6r myndu gera annars \u2013\u00a0og \u00fea\u00f0 er ekkert sem segir a\u00f0 allt sem er \u00ed e\u00f0li okkar s\u00e9 eitthva\u00f0 sem vi\u00f0 viljum n\u00e6ra. Vi\u00f0 erum skepnur \u2013\u00a0hugsandi og elskandi \u2013\u00a0en vi\u00f0 erum samt skepnur. \u00dea\u00f0 sem hefur okkur yfir a\u00f0rar skepnur, \u00e1 g\u00f3\u00f0um degi, er h\u00e6fileikinn til \u00feess a\u00f0 beisla \u00fea\u00f0 versta \u00ed e\u00f0li okkar \u2013\u00a0ekki h\u00e6fileikinn til \u00feess a\u00f0 l\u00e1ta \u00fea\u00f0 st\u00fdra okkur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Auk \u00feess \u00e6tti a\u00f0 vera auglj\u00f3st a\u00f0 a\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed marki sem vi\u00f0 f\u00e6\u00f0umst me\u00f0 e\u00f0li \u00fe\u00e1 er \u00fea\u00f0 \u00edvi\u00f0 fj\u00f6lbreyttara en a\u00f0 karlar vilji fara \u00ed byss\u00f3 og konur varalita sig. \u00deegar \u00e9g var l\u00edtill voru \u00e1rei\u00f0anlega margir sem \u00e1lyktu\u00f0u sem svo a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 v\u00e6ri ekki \u00ed \u201ee\u00f0li\u201c kvenna a\u00f0 spila knattspyrnu \u2013 \u00fe\u00e6r hef\u00f0u einfaldlega ekki \u00e1huga \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed. \u00de\u00e6r stelpur sem \u00fea\u00f0 ger\u00f0u voru kalla\u00f0ar str\u00e1kastelpur og t\u00f6ldust \u00e1rei\u00f0anlega vera a\u00f0 str\u00ed\u00f0a gegn e\u00f0li s\u00ednu. Sem er f\u00e1r\u00e1nlegt konsept. \u00dev\u00ed \u00fea\u00f0 sem str\u00e1kastelpurnar voru a\u00f0 gera var a\u00f0 fylgja e\u00f0li s\u00ednu \u2013 f\u00f3tboltinn kalla\u00f0i \u00e1 \u00fe\u00e6r og \u00fe\u00e6r hl\u00fdddu kallinu \u2013 r\u00e9tt einsog str\u00e1karnir sem varalita sig heyr\u00f0u snyrtid\u00f3ti\u00f0 hv\u00edsla. Og hvorugt segir neitt um a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 me\u00f0f\u00e6tt e\u00f0a l\u00e6rt e\u00f0a a\u00f0 hluta me\u00f0f\u00e6tt og a\u00f0 hluta l\u00e6rt \u2013 \u00fea\u00f0 er bara alls konar og skiptir engu andskotans m\u00e1li. Ma\u00f0ur f\u00e6r \u00fea\u00f0 fr\u00e1 \u00f6mmu sinni heitinni og ma\u00f0ur f\u00e6r \u00fea\u00f0 fr\u00e1 vinum s\u00ednum og ma\u00f0ur f\u00e6r \u00fea\u00f0 \u00far \u00fatvarpinu og me\u00f0 m\u00f3\u00f0urmj\u00f3lkinni og \u00e1 s\u00ed\u00f0kv\u00f6ldum \u00fati \u00ed sk\u00far me\u00f0 afa. Byltingin sem hefur or\u00f0i\u00f0 \u00e1 s\u00ed\u00f0ustu \u00e1rum \u2013 og er enn a\u00f0 ver\u00f0a \u2013 er a\u00f0 m\u00f6rgu leyti mj\u00f6g sj\u00e1lfhverf og einstaklingsmi\u00f0u\u00f0, sem hefur kosti og galla sem vi\u00f0 getum alveg r\u00e6tt, en h\u00fan sn\u00fdst um a\u00f0 hver manneskja f\u00e1i a\u00f0 fylgja s\u00ednu eigin e\u00f0li<\/em> frekar en a\u00f0 ney\u00f0ast til a\u00f0 tro\u00f0a s\u00e9r \u00ed e\u00f0lis-boxin sem menn einsog Snorri M\u00e1sson vilja sn\u00ed\u00f0a \u00feeim (og j\u00e1j\u00e1, \u00e9g heyr\u00f0i l\u00edka \u201em\u00e9r er alveg sama \u00fe\u00f3tt f\u00f3lk s\u00e9 trans heima hj\u00e1 s\u00e9r r\u00f6kin\u201c \u2013 \u00feau eru ekki sannf\u00e6randi). <\/p>\n\n\n\n A\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed s\u00f6g\u00f0u er hugur minn enn hj\u00e1 fr\u00fa Pedersen. <\/p>\n\n\n\n G\u00f3\u00f0ar stundir. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" \u00c6tli \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 ekki aldurstengt hversu oft hugsanir m\u00ednar \u00feessa vikuna hafa hvarfla\u00f0 til m\u00f3\u00f0ur Jeppes og Patricks Pedersena. Annar skora\u00f0i s\u00f6gulega fallegt mark og var\u00f0 bikarmeistari me\u00f0 Vestra \u00e1 me\u00f0an hinn sleit h\u00e1sin me\u00f0 Vali. Og mamma \u00feeirra hefur \u00feurft a\u00f0 hringja \u00ed \u00fe\u00e1 b\u00e1\u00f0a eftir leikinn. Ekki veit \u00e9g hva\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 segir um … Halda \u00e1fram a\u00f0 lesa: Fr\u00fa Pedersen og Snorri M\u00e1sson<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6203","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/norddahl.org\/fjallabaksleidin\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6203","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/norddahl.org\/fjallabaksleidin\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/norddahl.org\/fjallabaksleidin\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/norddahl.org\/fjallabaksleidin\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/norddahl.org\/fjallabaksleidin\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=6203"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/norddahl.org\/fjallabaksleidin\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6203\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6205,"href":"https:\/\/norddahl.org\/fjallabaksleidin\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6203\/revisions\/6205"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/norddahl.org\/fjallabaksleidin\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=6203"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/norddahl.org\/fjallabaksleidin\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=6203"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/norddahl.org\/fjallabaksleidin\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=6203"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}